Go with your gut on this one. Are you his parole officer or his girlfriend? She may be loud and obnoxious, overly flirtatious, and quite often visibly tanked. Once again, if that behavior changes, you may want to reconsider your approval of this behavior. We ended up J. being friends. i have a hard time trusting he's not hooking up with another girl..i have talked to him before how i wish he would call me, but we always end up fightingwhere do i go from here..is this a big deal or something not to be concerned about. Nothing controlling about it. This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. Covering Phoenix, Mesa, Glendale, Scottsdale, Gilbert, the valley . Now I don't know how he would feel or a possible future boyfriend would feel. justagirl09January 22, 2012 in Trust and Relationships. I would personally feel like a prisoner if he didnt "allow" it and would find it unhealthy. If he was the type of person that wanted to hang out in bars and set that example for his child, I wouldn't have even bothered with dating him. So here is how four women describe their experiences when a man went down on them. Ok, he went out without your permission, I mean, without notifying you. Traveling for work aside, if your partner tries to leave you behind, that's probably not a great sign. I agree it is between the two committed people to decide what works for them! It's not about permission but about respect because we don't want the other to feel uncomfortable. Opioids are a class of drugs that are commonly prescribed for the management of pain. Clubs and bars are not a place for someone in a relationship unless you're there with your partner to dance, have fun, and show the world who you're deeply in love with. I do think individuals should have "M. time" and couples should have dates. I know I can trust him. I can understand how those people who *enjoy* drinking, will likely go out often to do it. It's his choice whether he visits strip clubs, and you're also entitled to your feelings about it. musician | 7 views, 0 likes, 0 loves, 0 comments, 1 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Gee Broadcasting Corporation: Our Guest is Kahnma Karnga. Im sorry for saying all this, its not that i dont trust you its just i'd prefer you to be honest with me and tell me the truth rather than putting up with everything, it would make it easier for the both of us and our relationship! Be In Touch with Him. Learn to trust your partner. She dumped me for a guy she met there one night. I am not sure what the inside of a bar looks like nowadays.We J. don't go anyway. Well, amazing how a six year old post gets a reply but upon reading, as much as six months ago someone needed clarification. Don't listen to the people commenting below they are giving you the advice, they "think" is right. ahhh thats the one=) I haven't been there since January so it was a nice change. We are individuals sharing the same goals in relationship. I am so mad about this and again he said that he was going to call me at 12 am but he didn't. Luckily, we have every other weekend to ourselves when our kids are at our ex's house. "Breaking up evokes a lot of really strong emotions in people," Dr. Freitag explains. https://www.mamapedia.com/article/question-for-married-women-only, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/my-hubby-do-not-let-me-go-out-when-i-wanna-have-a-girl-night-outwhy, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/poll-on-men-and-frienships-w-women, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/can-guys-just-be-friends-with-girls-updated, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/can-men-and-women-be-friends-2673, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/discussion-dash-having-single-friends-when-married, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/opinions-on-having-guy-friends. If it becomes a constant thing of going ot the bars all the time and it eats into your time with him, which is what my bf wants to do, then you may have something to worry about. You wanna pay me 500 bucks an hour I can ask you as many questions as you feel like answering. but things he says or does make you feel bad about yourself - and you can't really figure out why. Has she always been that way, or is this a recent development? I feel like that is dangerous behavior. To use this example: "I don't want to be . Later that day when I went to see him again he had a bite on his neck and it looked like a love mark. I tell it like it is. My friends and I have often discussed how we don't "get it" that supposedly most women like women. =). We will at a social event, but that is maybe once or twice a year. I did. To a bar he goes to frequently and before he met with you, would meet up with a lot of girls, some of which are a lot younger and they still frequent this bar. You were. he knows you get hurt by what he does but still continues partying like someone who's single. It is a neighborhood place that serves beer and wine.. but also burgers and stuff. pastoralcucumbers My Long Distance Girlfriend won't video call with me. Not my style. It is just very hard, because I am deathly afraid of being cheated on. Nice. But not everyone would know the difference. What scares me is my jealousy. If it doesn't work, try a new combination. "But if your partner has started going out more and leaving you at home, that could indicate that they've got one foot out the door. Lets see how many times I can add to this. L143myself We recently got married and he got divorced two years and a half ago. Have a little faith. My issue here is probably from my past. my heart goes out to u, its so hard coz if u keep bringin up the subject u dont want to come across as clingy or needy, im in the same boat myself and i just confronted him lastnight, i ended up finishin it, which now i regret, if u intend to bring it up again with him be ready for the consequences. So, with that being said, if he wants to go out with his buddy once a week, its fine. Holy crap youre a dick. The only time he gets phone calls is when I wake up at 3am and hes not home. i don't need or want attention from other men. How do I know, bad breakup. evenworse No. Some people are brutaly honest and would never cheat. A spouse can interact with the world and other people. Also, my bf will flirt with girls, and I find out about it the next daythis doesn't make me too happy. I on the other hand don't know a single woman who is attracted to other women. 1. Would you or should I be bothered by the fact that she seems to want to go there without me? Wear anything other than what I usually wear? I have no problem because I love girls weekends. I read a story and call it. However if he was taking his single female intern out J. the two of them for drinksI would have a problem with thatif they go to lunch I really don't mind because it is usually because they are far away from the office on a site visit and go get something to eat. I am her first serious boyfriend as well, her only other boyfriend was a relationship that only lasted about 3 months. Again, there are exceptions. Lots of ladies (myself included) go out to meet friends without spouses to bars, and any bar is going to have single people in it. I guess I J. can't really imagine being in a relationship with someone that I didn't trust enough to be "allowed" to hang out with the opposite sex. that is the last message i want to send. It isn't driven by insecurity. in the situation you describe it doesn't sound like your relationship with your bf is that serious, you're not married and you don't call him a fiance. I don't ask many questions. Just get him chipped like a spaniel at the vet so you can track him. :). No. @jamie He countered me and said he'd be fine if I "go to the movies with Matt" (one of my good guy friends). Call/text/in person, etc.? Do what you feel is right. I wouldn't like the kind of relationships you are talking about, being with people(men or women) that I don't know well or interact with regularly. As many said, you have to take your spouses comfort level into consideration. When youre in a relationship, only YOU know the rules that you have. I guess I'm J. a prude, then, because I believe there are better places to hang out than bars and that if you are married or committed and have children, your time is better spent with them. Hafta to do it at home I guess. Boyfriends are different than husbands. maybe get some counseling or something before you make a mistake and let your insecurities get in the way. Like your man, my girl would often text me while she was out, telling me she was thinking of me. Keep being yourself, good relationships are hard to come by, and people are only jealous of yours :). Wife of 8 years straddled and flirted with my friend last night while drunk What did you do guys if you really really miss someone but you dont want to text or call him? Nearly everyone is guilty of giving their phone or other electronics too much attention from time to time, but if your partner is always so entrenched in what's going on elsewhere, it could be because they're no longer invested in what's going on between the two of you. If he cares about you telling you what he is up to would just be second nature. If your partner doesn't seem interested in having you involved in trip planning or is actively working on plans for trips without you, that could be a sign that something's going on,. First of all, guys NEED this time to well, do what guys do. I am in a relationship with this guy for the past 3.5 months. He aint changing especially if you arent there. Did I go to local bars and hang out and have all the fun you mentioned above when I was single? "[I]f you find that your partner is more engaged with text messaging friends or on social media when you're with them, this is a sign that they are not present in the relationship," Hershenson says. That's awesome. He sounds like a really sweet guy and even likes to text you while he is out. Tinder, the popular dating app, is no longer just for hookups. I can honestly say that I never knew women were generally attracted to other women. **Updated, Discussion-Having Single Friends When Married. That is exactly what's going on with me. Hope your ok x. I see nothing wrong with your scenarioI J. wouldn't venture into a bar alone. If I had asked questions, and made a couple comments, I am sure I could have had a hundred thousand posts by now too. We are comfortable with each other and trust each other 100%!! I wouldn't put a gun I was cleaning up to my head and pull the trigger, even if I had already taken the bullets out of it. The Best Gifts for Men in 2023 - Up to 30 different gift ideas for your man! xx. To M. that is not a friendship. It's totally not like that. So I decided to grab a drink at the local dive bar that I love. Does that make sense? Like whatever, I love him so much that I could do anything for him but who am I to fool I can't stand this any longer. I'm 36 and he is 40, with two young kids who are adorable. It makes me panic. *Could* I go to a bar w/out my spouse? Doesn't bother M.. Now, if he were encouraging sexual relationships with other people I WOULD be bothered. And now he was at a party and he messaged me around 9 pm telling he loved me. I love him but he doesn't seem to put any effort. I wouldn't want to tempt her or her M.. Good relationships are too hard to come by and I wouldn't want to jepordize one. We have no problem with this and neither do most of the couples among our friends. So I spend quite a lot of time with people who are not part of my nuclear family. My boyfriend was a loner but when he made an effort to date me, he knew exactly what respect and proper behavior was. It's not hard to pick up a phone even if your drunk. Make out you are. You know when you are dating someone who cares and you know when you are dating a player. All this woman wants to know is if her boyfriend is going out, because when you care for someone, it just nice to know. The bar is really not my husbands thing, but I go out with my friends without him and he is cool with it. Most chicks out here don't go out to bars as singles. I would not judge, unless it was something a man or woman was doing to pick up one night stands.. BTW I can say that the majority of women I know are attracted to women as well (even if they don't act on it) so should they be banned from everyone=)Advertisementif(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[320,50],'mamapedia_com-box-3','ezslot_4',679,'0','0'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-mamapedia_com-box-3-0');if(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[320,50],'mamapedia_com-box-3','ezslot_5',679,'0','1'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-mamapedia_com-box-3-0_1'); .box-3-multi-679{border:none !important;display:block !important;float:none !important;line-height:0px;margin-bottom:5px !important;margin-left:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-top:5px !important;max-width:100% !important;min-height:50px;padding-bottom:20px !important;padding-top:20px !important;text-align:center !important;}. But don't be anxious, you are good enough and I'm sure he loves you like you love him. Even in a long distance relationship, especially, in a long distance relationship, there has to be respect for trust to continue. Started Thursday at 07:54 PM, By LOTS of women purposely go after married men. help!!! He is free to go where he wants and so am I but we make choices to do and go places that honor our marriage and protect it at all costs. I guess I have.. This is something we as humans can't help. Even then hes moody and doesnt pay me much attention. Here^s what I got from what I read: 1. Delivery & Pickup Options - 59 reviews of LongHorn Steakhouse "We went for lunch on a Saturday. Granted we shouldn't keep people on a leash and there are a lot of things going on with a LDR but how can you truts someone like that? aweeeeeeee you're bf sounds amazing ! My SIL and I have this conversation a lot as she feels differently about it than I do. That I trust him to hang out means he can trust that if I say she give M. a bad vibe it isn't because she is pretty, or anything, it is J. something is off. were going to be living together before too long, so I am just letting him enjoy his time right now and trying to relax about it as difficult as it is not to worry. I think it's fantastic you are stretching yourself out of your comfort zone. Which causes you to start to question yourself (like M. today LOL) reading too much into it you know? you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to the. As for what anyone else thought, it was irrelevant. Most of the time I go out with my husband, but that is because we don't get very many opportunities to be out together and so I really want to be with him. I am sorry, it is hard to deal with, i know. explicit permission. But this is volunteer. He goes with a buddy of his. Some people trust because they are good people and lack experience and it's just the right thing to do. Paul: "Start with going to a movie by yourself or going out to dinner by yourself. The alternative is to . Most importantly, he calls you when he gets home. So drinking isn't something we *enjoy* doing. I feel for you. 3. Started January 19, By Now sometimes I will go out ot a bar with some of my friends. You are going to be better off for it, and I think that rocks. He he knows your always in he feels safe. I am a very touchy feely person. Of course it's important to have time away from your partner and a life of your own. In any event, simply do what you feel comfortable with and if you particularly don't want to go topless in front of your friend's fella keep your bikini top on, wear a onepiece swimsuit, or suggest to your dh that the pair of you slope off to another part of the beach where you won't feel so inihibited. . Yes I go out with out my husband.. if Im talking to anyone and they try to pick M. up using thier cheesy lines I let them know right away Im married. I could understand drinking a little too much, but once you reach the level of passing out that borderlines alcoholism. Just like the celebs when they have to kiss in movies, its nothing real, they still truly love their husbands/wives. He knows he can trust M.. I guess I J. don't see how going to a bar solo and getting into situations where there's lots of alcohol, music and men are hitting on you/questioning your relationship can be very good at all for your current relationship. Ahhhh, the Casino has a hold on him. I am ok with him going once a week as long as it is only guys. And if I'm going for a walk, to the grocery store, the gym, or out with my best friend, I make sure he knows where I'm going, when I'm going, and when I'm on my way home. It would be one thing if your SO is telling you where you can and cannot go. If you're insecure, you'll get upset if he talks to his family 50% of the time instead of spending 100% of it holding your hand. 10. I go out with my girlfriends, usually a dinner and drinks at the local dining place. Press the ignition button, then turn on the gas; press and hold it again for three seconds, not four or two or you might as well start from the beginning. It wouldn't matter who it was it would be that they don't want to be around us that would bug M., ya know? Is it okay for a boyfriend or girlfriend to go out to bars or clubs without you twice a week? Women shouldn't have to act like Jason Bourne going to crazy lengths to avoid attention just to have a drink and listen to a band without harassment. React Reply Cleveland Follow Explorer Age: 36 , mho 37% +1 y If he can go out so can you. i doubt we are even close to being in the same places in our lives. To an insecure girlfriend, she might assume guys' nights consist of heading to the strip club, then going to a seedy rub-and-tug afterward. You know honestly im sure it depends on the person. They got married a year later. She puts relationship on hold. Third is that you seem to be insecure deep down about your bf's party animal past and don't trust him. Yes. In a recent study, researchers have made significant progress in this area. Also we fully disclose everything before we even do something so we will ask the other. That means, he wants to reassure you that a) he didn't go home with some bar floozy and b) he got home safely. But I would care if he went with women , J. like he would not like M. sitting drinking or dancing with men. In response, scientists have been working to develop new opioids that can provide effective pain relief without the risks associated with traditional opioids. It is trying to control each other because deep down you don't trust each other to behave in a party environment. Now if he went to a place like that by himself I woudl worry something was up for 2 reasons. I'm a very sporadic patron of this bar. Before telling your partner something like this, pragmatism demands some thought first to how much you're asking and expecting a person to change. I do think it is okay to have opposite sex friends. He is allowed to go where he wants. But the. Maintaining organization for your electronics is very enjoyable. I don't say that he should stay with me all the time, but he can send me a message from time to time. Do I end things? Some men J. have very flirtatious personalities. what do i do? Happy couples need time apart and to. I go with the women, some bring husbands and there are occasionally some of thier male friends that wander in. My husband will not go out to bars or clubs without M., he thinks it is wrong and makes him uncomfortablein his defense he is devilishly handsome and gets hit on like no one I have ever seen, so I get where he is coming from. If you recognize that your partner does these things without you, it doesn't mean that the relationship is definitely over, but it does probably mean that there's some sort of problem there. I do what I CHOOSE to do. Ask him like if he could give you some pictures of beautiful places, or video calls you so it feels like you are there together. AskMen, Become a Better Man, Big Shiny Things, Mantics and guyQ are among the federally If it works for you two great! Of course I do, but the first time he says "I forbid you" is the time he gets a laugh in his face. You still are a person, apart from your spouse. Right now, it seems he's being attentive to your needs. As I mentioned above, he may just need some time to himself. Bars are not not my scene. It appears by what you said, that you *like* the attention you are getting when you go to the bars. I'm in the same situation. Anyways, that is the past, but you know how the past has a way of coming back and biting you in the behind! I always get the excuse of the phone dying or it fell but yet I can see he is online on Facebook etc it's always the weekend that his battery has died when he's out I don't blame you for stressing I have this situation every weekend it's at the point where I've had enough. It can feel like a never-ending cycle of disappointment and rejection, leaving you wondering if you'll ever find a meaningful connection. Anyway, to each his own regarding going out to a bar with or without our SO. 568 views, 38 likes, 3 loves, 3 comments, 74 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from El poeta boaner: El poeta boaner was live. Just calming say you will be "going out tonight/the weekend" for some fun with friends, he can enjoy himself with his. "And if . Not all of your friends or theirs will definitely be in relationships at the same time, so it's not necessarily a red flag if they plan dinner out with one of their single friends, but if hanging out with their single friends without you starts taking priority over spending time with you, that might mean that something is wrong. So, on both ends of things, no worries. You still have freedom. This could be a sign of cheating because he is projecting onto you. If your boyfriend suggests that your jealousy is irrational, ask him how he might feel if he were in your shoes. He has female friends too, but unless its a large group, I am not ok with that and he understands that. 10. Also, there can be some exceptions and ultimately, you and your partner probably know your relationship best, so just because they've done one of these things before doesn't necessarily mean that they're done with you or have completely checked out. He even texts me when he is out, and calls or texts when he gets home. honey, if you are not doing anything you are not sopossed to to, then dont give it another thought. He had a boyfriend, and as far as I knew, he was just being nice. A group of people going out, no problem. He has fun and I know he isn't sleeping around with his female friends when he goes. What are your feelings on that? Ziff Davis, LLC BBB Business Review. Um, not if you don't let it. Eventually I broke down, had a hard time with it, and she dumped me. I just want to hear stories of people whose SO goes out with his/her friends and your ok with it? If your partner doesn't seem interested in having you involved in trip planning or is actively working on plans for trips without you, that could be a sign that something's going on, psychotherapist Kimberly Hershenson tells Romper in an email exchange. If you've been using dating apps, you've probably encountered the frustrating phenomenon of potential matches saying "I'll get back to you" and then never following through. I called him at 11:30. If a guy is going to cheat on you, he doesn't have to go to the bar to do it. I have lots of friends, male and female - and I like people, male and female. My husband (these days) wants M. to be happy and encourages M. to get time out doing things I love. Help should I stay with him or not and it has been four long years that we have been together. By You may develop an issue with it. S H said it great, however i would add that the only way i go out is either with "the girls" or with my husband. But everyone has different needs, and desires. I was 20, she was 21, and I couldn't hit the bars with her. He would always tell me that well im not going to be able to see them that much when the baby comes. You could talk to him about what he wants and what you want, and reach an agreement together. My boyfriend goes out all night and doesnt call or text me a By entering this site you declare :) Turd. Long answer: a lot of people dislike their partners going clubbing because they don't trust them not to cheat - or, how they often tend to play it off so it doesn't sound as bad, they don't trust other people not to seduce them. that can be too easily taken as "I AM AVAILABLE!" You still can go out. Part of your discomfort about your boyfriend going out may be because you wish you were doing the same. He would attend the lingerie shows there and take pictures with the girls who apparently knew him by 1st name. Big difference. The answer is to behave appropriately while there. The premiere was later recognized as the all-time most successful cable series launch, with DVR viewers the . I occasionally go to after work happy hour with a big group of co-workers. That's a different matter. If it's a trend, however, you might need to do some reflecting. An adult, should know how to handle flattery and/or flirtations. I guess it's all in how you carry yourself. Commitment has nothing to do, with restricting another person. You get anxious when your boyfriend goes out because you're worried he's cheating, or that you aren't good enough and he'll find someone better. 9. Here are 3 ways to not be jealous when your boyfriend goes out. 2023 ZIFF DAVIS CANADA, INC. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Sorry - J. reality in my world - you haven't made a LIFETIME commitment to your boyfriend - hence the fact he is bf and not dh. Now I am talking about a friend that I talk on the phone to and interact regularly with. And you will never lose the ones that love you. 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